an unpopular definition of love that goes on for quite some time.

a few nights ago, I was having this long talk with Vivi on BBM, like any other night and we started talking about love.
It's been a while since I've confessed anything about my perspectives on love or my love life, so here goes some tiny bits and pieces.

if I have ever written something like this before, pardon me for my repetition - it just happens to be something I do a lot you know, repeatedly talking about the same thing over and over again. my friends would agree with me on that.

ANYWAY.

so, love.
where shall I begin?
I'd like to think that when I say I love someone, I really do mean it.
I think that's important. I have seen love being said endlessly, but without actually meaning it.
And that's sad. For no one can really live without love.
Sooner or later, everyone will realize how empty life can be without love.
How loneliness fill them with despair, slowly killing them inside. The crazy part would be that this could all be happening without the realization of one. How sad is that?
What is love?
I can't tell you. It isn't fair, for love is different for everyone.
If you think it's love, then it's love. Be grateful for what you have.

For me, love is an endless journey that takes you to places you've never imagined before.
Love can change you and love is more than what it seems.
The most important thing, in my opinion - is that love isn't much of anything else or anyone else but that one person.
That one person who makes you feel like you're alive.
Who takes your breath away and makes your heartbeat accelerate.
The one person who showed you the world,
and whose happiness is as or far more important than your own,

are you thinking of someone right now?
if you are, lucky you.
if it's more than one person, you are truly blessed.
to love somebody, it's not always a boyfriend/girlfriend thing.
it could be a friend, a family member, a colleague, perhaps a stranger?
it's your love, it's your story. no judgements.

am I making any sense?
I don't think so.
this is how it usually goes.
I ramble nonsense for a while,
ending up writing absolute bull that no one would understand.
my apologies.

well if you've got a life to live,
might as well live it to love,